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A “Different” kind of Funeral: From the Spring 2023 Funeral Consumers Alliance of the Virginia Blue Ridge Newsletter
An FCAVBR board member shared: A friend decided that her husband, who had been an avid gardener from the age of twelve, deserved to be returned to the earth. She chose the nearest option, Forest Rest Natural Cemetery in Boone’s Mill, about an hour from Blacksburg.
What constitutes “green” may include a whole range of actions. The strength or skill to dig a grave, to lift a body, or to prepare a body for burial can be a challenge! Although Forest Rest does not require collaboration with a mortuary, the friend found it easiest to arrange for a local funeral home to prepare and transport the body.
A small group gathered to follow the mortuary hearse to Forest Rest—just a little procession of three cars. Forest Rest had ready a rustic wooden cart. The deceased, wrapped in a simple shroud, was transferred to the cart for the short trip to the gravesite in a wooded area while the rest followed on foot. A few chose to place loving hands on the shroud, while others stood back respectfully. Two women brought flowers from their gardens; two brought cameras. The requested music was played on a cellphone and small speaker, which gave surprisingly good sound in the glade. Invited to speak, each guest read a poem or told a story, some of which were very funny. As the phone played Wagner’s Liebestod, the body was lowered into the grave. Flowers and small handfuls of soil were tossed in.
The whole experience, gently guided by the staff counselor, felt comfortable, intimate, and spontaneous.
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Forest Rest Natural Cemetery
As featured in The Franklin Post
Forest Rest Natural Cemetery becomes certified as only hybrid cemetery in Virginia
Boones Mill - A southwest Virginia cemetery offers options for everyone when it comes to their final resting place. Forest Rest Cemetery was recently certified as the only natural burial cemetery in Virginia.
Snow tampers with timing of last goodbyes
The Roanoke Times featured Evergreen Memorial Trust in an article revealing the affect winter weather has on funeral services. Read the full article in the link below.
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Going Green
“Roanoke Times (Roanoke, VA)”, 2013-11-24
Green burial options at Forest Rest include a biodegradable wicker-and-seagrass coffin and a linen burial shroud. Or the decedent can simply leave the living in the same condition in which the living were joined – naked as a jaybird.
Family members can ask that the grave be dug by hand, an alternative that avoids firing up fossil fuel-burning excavation equipment. And the family can help backfill the grave.
Forest Rest Natural Cemetery’s five wooded acres in Franklin County adjoin the conventional Mountain View Memorial Park off Grassy Hill Road. To date, surveying has established about 300 saleable burial spaces in Forest Rest, which opened last year. Ten have been sold. No one has been buried there yet.
For aging baby boomers who practice the principles of green living, a natural burial offers a chance for eco-friendly dying. And it provides an opportunity to embrace one last and ultimate act of recycling, according to the Green Burial Council, a nonprofit organization based in California.
The phrase “green living” refers to lifestyle and business choices that reduce the effects and costs of living, working and operating in a world of dwindling resources, rising energy costs and environmental perils.
Joe Sehee co-founded the Green Burial Council in 2005.
“I think Americans are finding less and less value in practices and products like embalming, concrete burial vaults and elaborate caskets, which explains why people have been drawn to green burial as well as to cremation,” Sehee wrote in an email.
Don Wilson is president of Roanoke-based Evergreen Memorial Trust, which manages Evergreen Burial Park, Mountain View Memorial Park, Forest Rest Natural Cemetery, Mountain View Cemetery in Vinton and the Green Hill Mausoleum in Buena Vista.
He said Evergreen Memorial Trust decided to develop Forest Rest after fielding inquiries about the availability regionally of natural burials.
“We realized that baby boomers want to do things differently than their parents and grandparents did,” Wilson said.
The same generation that launched Earth Day has begun considering how to leave life in an environmentally friendly way, he said.
Back to the earth
Like other natural cemeteries, Forest Rest forbids the use of burial vaults and chemical embalming. Its options for identifying grave spaces include tombstone-shaped markers made of cedar or inscribed native stone.
In conventional cemeteries, burial vaults help prevent the ground from settling as a casket and the body inside it decay. At Forest Rest, the dirt removed during excavation is piled in a mound atop the grave to help keep the space level as decay proceeds.
Lewis and Julia Woodford of Roanoke County, both in their late 70s, purchased two grave spaces at Forest Rest this spring. The Woodfords said they began looking several years ago for a natural burial cemetery and a friend told them about Forest Rest.
“We were looking for an alternative that was simple, ecologically sound and without fanfare,” Julia Woodford said.
Each will be buried in a simple, biodegradable casket.
“The idea is to go back to the earth,” she said.
Lewis Woodford said the couple long ago adopted practices now described as “green” that are tied to frugality, reuse, recycling and conservation.
“We’re doing things today that we did 50 years ago,” he said.
The Woodfords said their child, a grown daughter, supports their choice.
The National Funeral Directors Association offers members information about green funerals and predicts: “Eventually, you may be asked to explain or to offer ‘green’ funeral choices for some of the families in the communities you serve.”
The association suggests that “green funeral choices are expected to grow in popularity in the U.S.” And it advises that if a family wants to preserve a body for viewing, the alternatives to formaldehyde embalming include refrigeration and dry ice.
Sammy Oakey is president of family owned Oakey’s Funeral Service and Crematory, which traces its local roots to 1866. He said few people have inquired to date about green funerals and burials and that, aside from offering some green caskets, Oakey’s has not yet established pricing for what might be a green funeral.
“I think a lot of people don’t know about it yet,” Oakey said.
Oakey’s sells an eco-friendly wicker-and-seagrass casket for $2,095. Caskets available through Oakey’s range in price from $630 to $9,512.
Kenneth Kyger of Kyger Funeral Homes and Crematory in Harrisonburg and Elkton is president of the Duck Run Natural Cemetery in Penn Laird, about 5 miles east of Harrisonburg.
Duck Run, licensed in 2012, occupies part of a former dairy farm. Kyger said that about 600 grave spaces have been laid out. Duck Run, like Forest Rest, has sold some spaces. Kyger declined to say how many. No one has been buried to date.
“We have scattered cremains out there and we have buried cremains out there but we haven’t buried a natural body yet,” Kyger said.
He said cremation took a while to become accepted as an alternative to conventional burial. He believes green burial will follow suit.
“It’s a new concept,” Kyger said – but based, he said, on the ancient concept of in-ground burial of bodies in biodegradable coffins and garments.
“It’s actually come full circle,” he said.
Interest in green burial practices is increasing and people from out of state have inquired about Duck Run, Kyger said.
“Natural burial offers a very peaceful way to go,” he said.
Cost savings vary
Green burials are typically cheaper than conventional burials that feature concrete vaults, fancy caskets, chemical embalming and more.
“Compared to conventional burial, there are some obvious cost savings from green burial but it will never be as inexpensive as ‘direct cremation’ (cremation without a funeral),” Sehee said.
Oakey said the cost of a conventional funeral package available through Oakey’s can range from about $5,035 to about $16,000. Direct cremation at Oakey’s ranges from about $1,990 to about $5,023.
Cremation can be more environmentally friendly than a conventional burial but is not without impacts. Cremation burns nonrenewable fossil fuels, releases carbon dioxide and can also emit mercury when the person being cremated has dental amalgam fillings, according to the Green Burial Council.
The council has established a set of standards for natural burial and a certification program for cemeteries that meet those standards.
Sehee confirmed that the Duck Run Natural Cemetery was the first council-certified cemetery in Virginia.
Wilson said Forest Rest has completed the environmental impact statement required for Green Burial Council certification and is working to finalize a related plan for integrated pest management.
Ed Leonard, chief sustainability officer for the Holy Cross Abbey near Berryville, said he works to develop sustainable businesses that can help support the abbey and its Trappist monks.
The abbey developed the Cool Spring Natural Cemetery in 2012 on about 70 acres of the monastery’s 1,200 acres. Leonard said about 50 spaces have sold and the cemetery has buried 15 people to date. The spaces overlook the Shenandoah River and Blue Ridge Mountains, he said.
A “Blue Ridge Meadow” grave site at Cool Spring sells for $5,750, a price that does not include digging and backfilling the grave. He said the beauty of the site, the confidence buyers have in the monastery’s ongoing stewardship of the property and the spiritual ambiance of the location seem to appeal to buyers.
The Forest Rest grave spaces sell for $1,500 if the cemetery selects the client’s space and $2,000 if the space is chosen by the client. Pricing does not include digging and backfilling the grave, which adds $1,500 if machine dug or $2,000 if hand dug.
A burial space at Duck Run sells for $2,500. Opening and closing the grave adds $750.
Evergreen Memorial Trust has advertised Forest Rest in the Blue Ridge Edition of “Natural Awakenings” magazine. The ad describes Forest Rest as “a new natural cemetery for those wishing to leave a smaller and greener footprint when they pass.” Forest Rest has a website and a Facebook page, Wilson said, and most recently occupied a booth at the Green Living & Energy Expo at the Roanoke Civic Center.
Lewis Woodford said natural burial makes sense on a fundamental level.
“We come from the earth. We are of the earth. And we will go back to the earth,” he said.
Franklin Co. Cemetery Goes ‘Green’
by Jason Dunovant, Smith Mountain Eagle
There has been a growing trend in the last few years to simplify the burial process. As part of that trend, many cemeteries are beginning to offer a new, greener, option for those searching for their final resting place.
The Evergreen Memorial Trust dedicated the Forest Rest Natural Cemetery in Franklin County this past year. The natural cemetery is located adjacent to Mountain View Memorial Park in Boones Mill. It offers a different option for those who may not be interested in the modern burial process.
Forest Rest Natural Cemetery does away with many of the aspects of most modern cemeteries. Gone are elaborate caskets, expensive burial vaults, and large stone grave markers. Instead, Forest Rest provides a simple burial much like the ones performed over 150 years ago.
“There has been a resurgence of interest in going back to the way things used to be,” Evergreen Memorial Trust President Don Wilson said.
Those choosing to be buried at Forest Rest are given the option of natural, easily biodegradable caskets made of pine, wicker, or sea grass. There is even the option of using only a linen shroud.
Embalming is also optional. And when embalming is done, only natural and biodegradable embalming fluids may be used.
Grave markers are also small and unobtrusive. Cedar markers can be used as well as small stones with a person’s name and birth and death date etched on top.
Unlike most cemeteries, families are also encouraged to plant native trees as a memorial at the gravesite. This can help to give a more personal touch to a burial.
Wilson has been surprised by the interest in the natural cemetery since it was first introduced last year. He has noticed that many people are very receptive to the concept of a natural cemetery. Many people these days do not want the usual elaborate funeral.
“We’ve been getting a lot of calls and inquiries since it was dedicated this past year,” Wilson said.
In addition to being a more environmentally friendly option, it is also a much cheaper option. The cost can be half of the normal burial costs that can be as much as $6,000, according to Wilson. Funeral home costs can also be reduced if no embalming is done.
Besides the cost, the look of Forest Rest Natural Cemetery is unlike any average cemetery. The natural cemetery is located on five acres of beautiful forest. The site is left mostly undisturbed except for the occasional marker where future graves will be placed.
Those buried at Forest Rest would seem to truly go back to nature. In a few months time, the only evidence that a grave is there is the simple grave marker.
Anyone interested in more information on Forest Rest Natural Cemetery can visit their website at ForestRestNaturalCemetery.com or contact them at 540-334-5410.